This entry from The Daily Stoic is all about the importance of good time management. There are many days in which I feel like I’ve got little to no time to do the things I find meaningful but, upon reflection, I notice several things that I could do differently. Instead of spending so much time on social media, I can dedicate that time to reading, juggling, writing, stretching, etc. That works well for smaller things that I can do by myself. It’s more difficult to make that work out with larger things, such as getting enough time freedom to pursue my main life goals. However, difficult doesn’t mean impossible and I’ve gotten pretty good at doing things that many people would consider to be impossible, so it’s just a matter of figuring out what changes I need to make to get where I want to be in life. That way I can look back on my life in my later years and be satisfied that I did the best I could with the time I had.
“It’s not at all that we have too short a time to live, but that we squander a great deal of it. Life is long enough, and it’s given in sufficient measure to do many great thins if we spend it well. But when it’s poured down the drain of luxury and neglect, when it’s employed to no good end, we’re finally driven to see that it has passed by before we even recognized it passing. And so it is – we don’t receive a short life, we make it so.”
-Seneca, On the Brevity of Life, 1.3-4a
No one knows how long they have to live, but sadly, we can be sure of one thing: we’ll waste far too much of life. Waste it sitting around, waste it chasing the wrong things, waste it by refusing to take the time to ask ourselves what’s actually important to us. Far too often, we’re like the overconfident academics that Petrarach criticized in his classic essay on ignorance – the types who “fritter away their powers incessantly in caring for things outside of them and seek themselves there.” Yet they have no idea this is what they’re doing.
So today, if you find yourself rushed or uttering the words “I just don’t have enough time,” stop and take a second. Is this actually true? Or have you just committed to a lot of unnecessary things? Are you actually being efficient, or have you assumed a great deal of waste into your life? The average American spends something like forty hours a year in traffic. That’s months over the course of a life. And for “traffic,” you can substitute so many activities – from fighting with others to watching television to daydreaming.
Your life is plenty long – just use it properly.